4 fresh red chiles (like Thai bird or Fresno), seeded if you like, and chopped
2 tablespoons soy sauce, or more to taste
4 limes, quartered
16 to 20 leaves Bibb or iceberg lettuce
Instructions
Put the rice in a large skillet over medium heat and cook, stirring often, until deeply golden and fragrant, 3 to 5 minutes. Transfer to a spice grinder (or use a mortar and pestle) and grind to a powder.
Pulse the tofu and garlic in a food processor until crumbly. Heat the oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. When it’s hot, add the tofu mixture. Sprinkle with salt, pepper, and sugar, and cook, stirring occasionally, until the mixture has browned in places, 8 to 12 minutes.
Transfer the tofu mixture to a large bowl and add the herbs, shallots, chiles, and soy sauce. Squeeze in the juice from 2 limes and toss to combine. Taste and adjust the seasoning.
Put the lettuce on a platter with the tofu mixture and remaining lime wedges. To eat, spoon some tofu-herb salad into a lettuce cup, sprinkle with the ground toasted rice, and squeeze over additional juice from the remaining 2 limes.